Finding You ....
Talked about by:
Yolei
on Saturday, April 25, 2009
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LifeLessons
I have a friend who is newly separated from her hubby and she is having a hard time of it. She often wonders where it all went wrong. We talk about how he was with her and I find that we women loose ourselves in our husbands. He married a beautiful, confident, vibrant woman and then preceded to start changing who she was. He requested that she loose weight, change her hair color, wear more conservative clothing and stop smoking. (the last thing I'm glad she did) So to make him happy she did all these things and that still was not enough for him. He had to control what she ate and didn't like to do anything she was interested in. Basically it was all about him! So now she is broken and thinks she is not attractive when she is beautiful. She forgot who she was before she met him all those years ago. Now she is in the process of finding out who she is now. My suggestion is to get out and meet people. Go places you wanted to go but he never did. Do things you wanted to do but he never would. Learn how to be completely happy being by yourself. Once you do that you will have healed yourself. You will know what it is and what it isn't that you want in a new guy. And the old guy will be kicking himself for letting you go and any changes you make will be for yourself not anyone else.
Speak On It .....
Speak On It .....
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