What about YOUR friends???

QUESTION??

If you had a friend who has been in your life off and on for about 13 yrs.
To you they are more like a sister.
For no reason given just stops talking to you, no big argument, just stops talking to you.
How would you react?


Now the thing is you have gone through this with this friend on several occasions throughout the friendship and you are always the one who extends the hand of reconciliation as far as trying to maintain the relationship.  You call to see why or what happened to them to make them stop talking to you. 

Do you do it again or do you leave it be?  Would you call it being stubborn or just being tired?

I feel like this.  If I have been there for you for many, many years through all your UPS and your DOWNS, I would expect at least a reason as to why you stopped talking to me.  I guess for me I feel like I would be begging you to be "my friend" if I am the one constantly coming to you and asking "What's wrong now? or What did I do now?"

YOU KNOW.....

I am just too damn old for this.  It's tiring.  It shouldn't be THIS hard to be friends.  RIGHT?  If you are my friend the way you say you are you should just say what's on your mind and not have people wondering what they did wrong.  It's not fair to them.

So when they get tired and are done with playing the game it doesn't make then less of a friend nor does it make the friendship null and void.  It just means you as the 'cutter offer' may need to stop with that and be a complete friend and speak your mind.  If you are having a bad week.  Just say so.  If you need some space.  Just say so.  If they did something to piss you off.  JUST SAY SO!
So 'cutter offer' I say call the person you cut out and apologize.  That's my opinion.

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