Showing posts with label Hot Topic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Hot Topic. Show all posts

You ARE The Father, Maybe???

Lawyer sues basketball star LeBron James, alleging he is his father.

Where they do that et?

Really Dude????  Where where you when he was a baby?

 

How many chances do you need??

 
Lindsy Lohan is disappointed in a harsh and unfair treatment.  Doooooof !!!! 0_o
Did I miss something?  Was she not given several chances to get herself together?  I'm glad she's doing jail time.  Maybe, just maybe she'll learn from this that there are consequences to her actions.

Do you think the judge was too harsh or did she get what she deserves?

Worth a Million Dollars???



Did he sell his soul for the money?  Do you think he should donate it to a Gay Marriage Organization? 

Ooops I did it again?!?!?!???



I hope his azz fries.  Slick bastard!  He got off cause is daddy was a Judge in Aruba but he has NOOOOOO pull here AND daddy can't save him!


Just My Opinion

You know I'm going to have to just say this one little thing then I think I'm done unless some idgit pisses me off about it.

ALICIA KEYS SLEPT WITH AND THEN GOT PREGNANT BY SOMEBODY ELSE'S HUSBAND! 

Yes he was still married when she got pregnant.  The divorce was final like last week.  I'm all on these web sites where people are all giddy and happy for her.  REALLY??  Yes a baby is a blessing but how the child got here is a hot damn mess and I'ma need people to not be condoning this behavior.  It's my blog and I say what I want!!  Wooooohsaaaaaaa ............. Am I judging.  HELL YEAH I am but it is also a FACT.  He was married for almost 5 yrs and out of those 5 yrs you been fuxing with him for 4 yrs. ....... ?!?!?!?....... Now don't he have a 2yr old son with the ex?  Numbers and the addition is off.

EXHIBIT A - Big Bump

Now you GOOD-AN-PREGNANT cause see that's a pretty good bump so I'd say at lease 5 month.  I'm gaging cause I've have 3 babies so I'm figuring it base on that.  I just don't know what to say about it.  I mean no we all aren't perfect I sure as hell ain't but day.yum.

I feel so bad for his (recent) ex wife.  To hear her tell it she was happy go lucky until she found out, found out since there were only rumors floating around.  I know how it can be to be so in love you just don't see the signs.  It can make you flip out when life as you know it is poof over.  She had every right to flip in any manner she felt like ... if it made her feel better.  When you've worked to build a life, a home with someone to find out it was a lie.  WooooChil...... Knowing me I'ma go straight jacket cratzy all up n through.

I just think Ms. Superwoman and such should have made sure he was free and clear before she got involved with dude.  Tacky and Ratchet.  I am really feeling disappointed in her.  Yup and I'm entitled to my opinion.


Jaden Smith as The Karate Kid

I am excited and can't wait to see this young one do his thing in The Karate Kid, which hits theaters June 11th, by the way!  I watched him and his family on Oprah a few weeks ago and was blown away by the dedication this kid has.  Truly a sign of some pretty awesome parenting.  Big ups to Will and Jada for having such grounded kids all of them present themselves well.  I snagged a few pictures of Mr. Man  ... if only he were older ..... not for me but I have 3 beautiful girls .... hint-hint.

Watch out Jada you gonna have to take a bat to some of these here fazz azz girls cause your son is about to be the new HOTNESS!!!

Letter to A Home Wrecker!

I just had to post this up!  A response letter from Swizz Beats now ex-wife about the affair.  Originally posted on   http://hiphollywood.com/hipheadlines/2009/9/28/public-letter-issued-to-alicia-keys-detailing-affair.html


Mashonda Tifrere is producer, Swizz Beats', estranged wife. It was speculated several months ago that he began an illicit affair with singer, Alicia Keys. Both parties reluctantly confessed to have been dating ever since. Mashonda has kept relatively quiet about the entire situation, however one of Alicia Key's recent tweets pushed her over the edge. She wrote an open letter to Alicia, detailing her feelings.
Here's AK's tweet: “Having a heated debate n the studio. Question is…N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is ‘SMART’ or the choice that has ‘SPARK’??”
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something that's broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, that's false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
I'm not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesn't exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I don't have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, I'm sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I don't consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned a lot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. There's a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
Wow...


And the Winner Is ......

...... Bland Lee DeWyze



She was JIPPED, HOODWINKED even..... or was she???  We all know that the 'WINNER' usually flops big time minus Kelly and the country chick.  So I hope like all of the other past Idol Losers she does well.  I think she will bypass the "winner" in sales like most runners up do.  Just.My.Opinion as always.

Me Likey

Jennifer Hudson

Is showing off he body on the cover of People Magazine. She's now a size 6!!  I love the healthier, fit J. Hud.  Some big girls feel like she's left the family.  Look .... The child is trying to be healthy.  I say freak'm J.  You look FABULOUS!!!  In fact I'm a little jelly but I'll get there.

Don't Ask Don't Tell

My opinion is If you know you are gay and the policy is don't ask don't tell please do not join if you are going to out yourself.  You waste the military's time and money they could be using to train another soldier.  I personally don't like Don't ask Don't tell but until it's changed it is the law.  Now this is a school scholarship offered buy JROTC with her promise to join the military when she graduates.  I find her behavior a bit deceptive.  I think maybe she changed her mind.  I don't know all I know is she formally gave a letter to the head of the JROTC program admitting she was gay.

Well what say you?  Did she do it for the money?  Didn't she realize she bit off more then she could chew?

click and read ....  http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/05/14/sara-isaacson-rotc-cadet_n_576401.html

Here we go again!

I know, I know this topic is old but I just had to post this.  I love reading the comments just to gauge what the readers are thinking.  Commenter blessedpeacemaker made all kinda of since.  I agree 100%

 Happily Married 13yrs.  Who says black women can't find a good black man?  I did!
What say you?  Women speak up!

click link for full story:  http://newsone.com/nation/boycewatkins/dr-boyce-black-women-cant-find-good-men-oh-really/

Why Can’t A Succesful Black Woman Find A Man?

I 'm watching Nightline and THIS is going to be interesting.
What say you ladies?  Men?  Do you think a successful black women can't find a man because of attitude or money or both?

OK let me say this STEVE HARVEY CAN NOT TELL ME SHIT!!!!!  He's been married how many times????  How you gonna call yourself a relationship EXPERT   0_o   Huh????

So what Mr Harvey says is because you as a black man are ashamed of the fact that you aren't "there yet" that we should just put up with all the B.S. black men do.  Hmmmm NOT!
I am feeling my Sherri on this one.  Why do we as women ALWAYS have to stroke YOUR ego?  This man makes my head hurt!

Click the link.

Sherri Shepard, Steve Harvey & Hill Harper: Why Can’t A Succesful Black Woman Find A Man? [Video]

The whole 3hr debate is on  nightline.com

Much Love for B.Scott

Heeeey Love Muffins it's B.Scott!  He is fa.bu.lus personified. He has a show on Sirus radio The Foxxhole channel.!!!  Check it out.  Here are a few pictures of his first day.

B.Scott and Michelle Williams

Fabulous


Mo'Nique's Brother Apologizes for Sexually Abusing His Sister

Monday April 19, 2010 06:50 PM EDT
Mo'Nique's Brother Apologizes for Sexually Abusing His Sister | 
Mo'Nique
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Jeff Christensen/AP

The brother of Oscar-winning actress Mo'Nique admitted to Oprah Winfrey on Monday that he repeatedly molested his little sister starting when she was only 7 years old.

Mo'Nique, who won the Best Supporting Actress Academy Award for Precious: Based on the Novel Push by Sapphire, has spoken publicly about the abuse at the hands of Gerald Imes, saying she channeled "that monster" when she played the brutal mother in the film.

"I'm sorry, Mo'Nique. I'm sorry," Imes said Monday on The Oprah Winfrey Show. "I betrayed everybody's trust. I broke that trust. I broke that bond." Mo'Nique declined to be involved in Imes's interview or respond to his apology.

Imes blamed the sexual abuse, which happened over a period of two years mostly while Imes believed Mo'Nique was sleeping, on the fact that he too had been molested and was masking his pain with drugs.

"I started using cocaine, heroin, alcohol at the age of 11," he told Winfrey. "I used these drugs to hide my own pain, to hide my own fears ... The drugs allowed me and afforded me the opportunity to hurt my sister."

He said he hid the shame he felt at having been sexually abused himself and took it out on his sister, who is now 42.

Imes was later sentenced to 12 years in prison for molesting another girl. But now he wants to repair his relationship with his sister and move forward.

"I can only hope by coming forth today ... that somewhere down the line … we can come back together as siblings," he said. "I understand your pain. I truly think, let's share this together and move on."


There is a special place in hell for people like this!!!  I can't believe Lady O even let that fool on her stage.  

 

J-Hud looks Marvelous

Jennifer Hudson’s Fitness Goal? ‘To Bounce Quarters Off Her Butt!’

(People.com)

I am so impressed with her weight loss.  She looks marvelous!!!  I wish I had a personal trainer to whip my butt in shape.  That FIT is fly too!  It shows off all her hard work.  Every sit-up, leg lift, squat and lung.

Uhhh I so need to get my fashion mojo back but I know that ain't gonna happen until I get some more of this weight off.  Game-On!!

Speak on it .....

Say It Ain't So Whitney!

Why Whitney???   Why???   We were rooting for you lady!

To hear that you were out with Bobby esp. after all that mess you were talking about on Oprah (the eyes y'all the eyes on the wall) had me thinking you was done with all that craziness.  Poor Bobby Christine.  I feel so bad for the child.  As a parent of 3 girls I know they can get caught up in all kinds of stuff and she, more then most, as unlimited access to all of it.  If that child makes it out of all of this with her head on straight it would be astonishing.



Hey Love Muffin

I am such a fan of B. Scott!!  Yes he may not appeal to everyone but he is his always himself.  NO FAKER UP IN HUR!  He is gorgeous as a male or female.  I have heard his story and followed along as a faithful LOVE MUFFIN.  Here is one of my favorite pictures of him.   ***Double Kisses***



Join up and become a Love Muffin too.   http://www.lovebscott.com/

Is Beyonce Pregnant?



If this is true, I can't wait to see what the baby will look like. I hope she has STRONG genes.

Health Care Passes


MY HUSBAND WILL NO LONGER BE EXCLUDED FROM RECEIVING HEALTH INSURANCE BECAUSE HE HAS A PRE-EXISTING CONDITION!!!!

Hot Topic - Family Dynamics


A co-worker expressed anger when her son called his mother-in-law MOM.  So that got me to thinking and well it took me a long time to call my in-law MOM.  For me it wasn't because I disliked her or anything it was just because everyone called he by her nickname so I did too. 
So my question is: Do you call your in-law MOM or DAD and does you parent get angry or upset when you do?

Speak on it....