My near death experience. OK so I wasn't as near death as I thought but hell I was scared for my life y'all. I got a call from my sister asking me for something from my little storage house in the back yard. So I go drive back there to get it, open the door all willy nilly and ZAP!!!!! Ms. Wasp stabbed me in the back.
IN MY FREAKIN BACK .... well my shoulder blade area.
When I say I was screaming and running all around my yard like a chicken with my head cut off I was. At first I thought it was a big azz spider that got me but then there it was ..... the wasp nest. So I ran back to my house left the car running in the yard and was looking to see if any of my neighbors were home. Well NOBODY was home. So I run back to the car pull out the keys and go in the house.
What you don't know is as a child and young adult I had violent reactions to bee stings so Dr's have always lumped all stinging bugs in with that HENCE my freaking out. Now back to my horror story .....
I was supposed to meet my hubby for lunch today. I called him and was all screaming and yelling on his v-mail ....... yeah way to freak him out. I decided that I was just going to drive to him and let him look at my back since I was feeling nothing but sharp pain. No Sweating. Good. No light headedness. Great. I figured I was good to go.
Boy was I wrong. As I was driving my left arm started to go numb and I was having some shortness of breath. This was not good. I was feeling sick to my stomach. I passed my Bro-in-law on the way little did I know hubby had called him to come check on me. Hubby called me and I told him I was going to be late for lunch but he was almost home. He told work he had to leave so he could get to me. MY BABY LOVES ME!!! He was coming to rescue me. We met on the side of the highway he left his car and took me to the Dr's office. She checked me out and gave me some medicine and told me to go home. She did watch me and told me if I was still experiencing the shortness of breath and tingly arm to go to the emergency room.
Well I came home took some pain meds and went to bed. I have mild swelling and I'm still sore but other then that I'm doing MUCH BETTER!!!!
I love that my hubby came to save me. I LURVE THIS MAN!!!!
Just My Opinion
You know I'm going to have to just say this one little thing then I think I'm done unless some idgit pisses me off about it.
ALICIA KEYS SLEPT WITH AND THEN GOT PREGNANT BY SOMEBODY ELSE'S HUSBAND!
Yes he was still married when she got pregnant. The divorce was final like last week. I'm all on these web sites where people are all giddy and happy for her. REALLY?? Yes a baby is a blessing but how the child got here is a hot damn mess and I'ma need people to not be condoning this behavior. It's my blog and I say what I want!! Wooooohsaaaaaaa ............. Am I judging. HELL YEAH I am but it is also a FACT. He was married for almost 5 yrs and out of those 5 yrs you been fuxing with him for 4 yrs. ....... ?!?!?!?....... Now don't he have a 2yr old son with the ex? Numbers and the addition is off.
Now you GOOD-AN-PREGNANT cause see that's a pretty good bump so I'd say at lease 5 month. I'm gaging cause I've have 3 babies so I'm figuring it base on that. I just don't know what to say about it. I mean no we all aren't perfect I sure as hell ain't but day.yum.
I feel so bad for his (recent) ex wife. To hear her tell it she was happy go lucky until she found out, found out since there were only rumors floating around. I know how it can be to be so in love you just don't see the signs. It can make you flip out when life as you know it is poof over. She had every right to flip in any manner she felt like ... if it made her feel better. When you've worked to build a life, a home with someone to find out it was a lie. WooooChil...... Knowing me I'ma go straight jacket cratzy all up n through.
I just think Ms. Superwoman and such should have made sure he was free and clear before she got involved with dude. Tacky and Ratchet. I am really feeling disappointed in her. Yup and I'm entitled to my opinion.
ALICIA KEYS SLEPT WITH AND THEN GOT PREGNANT BY SOMEBODY ELSE'S HUSBAND!
Yes he was still married when she got pregnant. The divorce was final like last week. I'm all on these web sites where people are all giddy and happy for her. REALLY?? Yes a baby is a blessing but how the child got here is a hot damn mess and I'ma need people to not be condoning this behavior. It's my blog and I say what I want!! Wooooohsaaaaaaa ............. Am I judging. HELL YEAH I am but it is also a FACT. He was married for almost 5 yrs and out of those 5 yrs you been fuxing with him for 4 yrs. ....... ?!?!?!?....... Now don't he have a 2yr old son with the ex? Numbers and the addition is off.
EXHIBIT A - Big Bump
Now you GOOD-AN-PREGNANT cause see that's a pretty good bump so I'd say at lease 5 month. I'm gaging cause I've have 3 babies so I'm figuring it base on that. I just don't know what to say about it. I mean no we all aren't perfect I sure as hell ain't but day.yum.
I feel so bad for his (recent) ex wife. To hear her tell it she was happy go lucky until she found out, found out since there were only rumors floating around. I know how it can be to be so in love you just don't see the signs. It can make you flip out when life as you know it is poof over. She had every right to flip in any manner she felt like ... if it made her feel better. When you've worked to build a life, a home with someone to find out it was a lie. WooooChil...... Knowing me I'ma go straight jacket cratzy all up n through.
I just think Ms. Superwoman and such should have made sure he was free and clear before she got involved with dude. Tacky and Ratchet. I am really feeling disappointed in her. Yup and I'm entitled to my opinion.
5/28/10
You just need a little more encouragement to succeed -- especially if it comes from yourself. Tell yourself to hang in there! There are great opportunities on the horizon, and all you need to do is watch out for them, then plan your attack to take full advantage of your own qualities. You are quite well prepared -- it may even feel like you've been preparing for this forever! Believe in yourself and jump right in.
Jaden Smith as The Karate Kid
I am excited and can't wait to see this young one do his thing in The Karate Kid, which hits theaters June 11th, by the way! I watched him and his family on Oprah a few weeks ago and was blown away by the dedication this kid has. Truly a sign of some pretty awesome parenting. Big ups to Will and Jada for having such grounded kids all of them present themselves well. I snagged a few pictures of Mr. Man ... if only he were older ..... not for me but I have 3 beautiful girls .... hint-hint.
Watch out Jada you gonna have to take a bat to some of these here fazz azz girls cause your son is about to be the new HOTNESS!!!
Letter to A Home Wrecker!
I just had to post this up! A response letter from Swizz Beats now ex-wife about the affair. Originally posted on http://hiphollywood.com/hipheadlines/2009/9/28/public-letter-issued-to-alicia-keys-detailing-affair.html
Mashonda Tifrere is producer, Swizz Beats', estranged wife. It was speculated several months ago that he began an illicit affair with singer, Alicia Keys. Both parties reluctantly confessed to have been dating ever since. Mashonda has kept relatively quiet about the entire situation, however one of Alicia Key's recent tweets pushed her over the edge. She wrote an open letter to Alicia, detailing her feelings.
Here's AK's tweet: “Having a heated debate n the studio. Question is…N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is ‘SMART’ or the choice that has ‘SPARK’??”
Mashonda Tifrere is producer, Swizz Beats', estranged wife. It was speculated several months ago that he began an illicit affair with singer, Alicia Keys. Both parties reluctantly confessed to have been dating ever since. Mashonda has kept relatively quiet about the entire situation, however one of Alicia Key's recent tweets pushed her over the edge. She wrote an open letter to Alicia, detailing her feelings.
Here's AK's tweet: “Having a heated debate n the studio. Question is…N love is it better to go 4 the choice that is ‘SMART’ or the choice that has ‘SPARK’??”
After having a great evening with my son and enjoying some fun twit chat, I decided to sign off and get some work done. However, a few hours later I was advised that I should check @aliciakeys twit page. I’ve never reached out to her on twitter before. I feel our issues are a lot more serious than a website conversation. Not to mention that I’ve reached out to her many times in the beginning of this whole thing, as any wife would do. Unfortunately, I never succeeded in getting a response. The 1st time I meet AK, my husband introduced us to each other at an event. ( I have no choice but to call him my husband, until he is not anymore) In the messages that I sent to her (AK), I made it very clear that on the contrary of what she might be hearing, I am still married to my husband, living with him and just had a child. Its been two years and I still have not received a response. What I do receive, is constant displays of selfishness and disconcern to me and my son.Wow...
I was a fan of AK’s last album, we were both signed to J Records and I always checked up on her projects. I sang her songs and admired her for creating Superwoman and Karma, I would never deny her, her talent. I believed in her until I found out she was possibly sleeping with my husband. The affair was denied by both, until it was finally admitted months later.
Already I can hear some of you saying ” why are u blaming her, You cant make someone leave their wife, You cant break something that's broken”. Well, my marriage was not broken, as far as I knew we were celebrating our sons birth and getting ready to celebrate our 5 year wedding anniversary . Call it blind love, whatever. I call it being a devoted wife.. As far as me blaming her and not blaming him, that's false. Me and my husband have worked out our differences. We are in a good place as people and as parents. I accept his choices and I am comfortable enough with myself to move on. I am so very blessed in many ways.
My concern with AK is no longer the fact that she assisted in destroying a family but that she has the audacity to make these selfish comments about love and wanting to be with someone, even after knowing their situation. How is this the same Superwoman that I sang out loud with in my truck? I ask myself sometimes.
If you are reading this Alicia, let me start by saying, you know what you did. You know the role you played and you know how you contributed to the ending of my marriage. You know that I asked you to step back and let me handle my family issues. Issues that you helped to create.
I'm not saying everything was perfect all the time but no relationship is perfect. We made a vow to God and I believe you should have respected that, as a woman. I know you owe me or my son nothing but I just wish you would’ve handled things more carefully. I’m not judging you, I put you and the whole situation in the hands of God, the Higher Power. Just know that as a woman, I expected so much more from you. I never had intentions on reaching out to you this way but after reading your twits tonight, and the constant disregard, you left me no choice. I feel that after 1 and a half years of you hiding this affair and acting like it doesn't exist, that now is the time to confront it, since you talk so openly about it now
This is not a publicity stunt, I don't have a record coming out. I just need to close this chapter in my life and that means confronting our issues. There is a small child involved. His dad loves him to death and he wants to spend more time with him but hes afraid because he knows we don’t have a relationship. This is my main concern. My son NEEDS his dad and I NEED to be comfortable with you. For him!
I know many will see my point and many will not be able to look into what’s real because they only want to see Alicia Keys the celebrity, not the human. This is not for the “people”, this is for you. Like I said I was left no choice but to reach out to you this way. By now, I'm sure you want to find a balance in this as well.
I read your tweets tonight and I felt they were very insensitive. You have no idea how much pain I was caused because of this affair. Its baffling to me that you don’t understand what I might have gone through with this situation. I don't consider myself a victim anymore, Ive learned a lot from this! I just ask you to try and be a bit more realistic and delicate to the situation, at least until my divorce is final. I felt me attending the party would have been a starting point for us, since you shook my hand after I offered it, but I suppose I was wrong.
If its so, that you and my husband are meant to be together, then God bless you both and I hope you never have to deal with what I did. I would not wish it on my worst enemy. If you two being together forever is the case, its more of a reason for us to get along, because I’m not going anywhere. There's a child to be raised.
To answer your tweet, choose smart over spark. Sparks burn everyone, be smart! Its simple actually, just think of the shoe being on the other foot.
Stay blessed and lets work this thing out with respect and dignity.
